Sharon Laufer
Grew up in Florida, moved to Manhattan after college, work in Fashion and now living and exploring a new life in Australia!
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| Typical Tasmanian landscape. |
| Bay of Fires |
| A lazy evening in Bicheno. |
| Bicheno's blowhole. |
| Coles Bay |
| View of Wineglass Bay from the lookout point. |
| Wallaby checking out people on the beach. |
| Fresh lobster and oysters. |
| At Milton Winery. |
| Digging in to some wallaby salami pizza. |
| Some Tasmanian coastline... |
One luxury to being an expat here in Australia is the ability to claim LAFHA every month. LAFHA is a government funded allowance for people living away from home. Basically, it helps subsidize your food and rent expenses thereby giving you more money in your paycheck. Since Adam works for a very large global consulting firm, he was unable to get this allowance (we were super bummed). However, once I got my new job for a much smaller company, I was able to obtain it with such ease. Within one paycheck cycle I noticed an increase in my salary which was not from my company.
It has been great benefiting from this for the last 11 months but to my sadness it has come to pass that as of July 2012, this allowance will no longer be given to expats living in Australia without PR (permanent residency). Many people on the same 457 Visa as myself claim they are eligible based on the fact that we normally reside overseas but are living in Australia for work. Just in the past year the amount of active 457 Visas in Australia doubled to 9,000. That means there are going to be 9,000 people just as unhappy as me.
A few friends advised us to check out Parramatta Road, which is lined with used car dealerships whose listed price is always much higher than the price they're willing to sell at. After a long day of walking from dealership to dealership looking at crappy Holdens, Fords, and Daewoos, and sweating buckets in the humidity, we decided that this was not the best way to do things.
We retreated to our home, on public transportation of course, to do some more research. We hit up Drive.com.au and limited our search to brands we'd actually want to drive. We checked each make, model, year, and how many kilometers the car had. Then Adam contacted each one and talked the price down by at least $1000; for the ones that said they could drop the price, we plotted the location on a map and told them we'd come see the car the next day. We rented a car this time around and the next morning headed out to see each one.
Three dealerships and one house call later we ended up getting an oldie but a goodie. Since we only needed a car to last us for the next year and a half or so we decided cheaper is the way to go.
We are now the owners of a 1997 Silver Audi A4 that was listed for $5k but we got for $3750. Its registration ("rego" in Aussie parlance) and insurance don’t expire until May so we saved ourselves roughly $400 on that.
When shopping for a used car I suggest following the method we used. Here are a few more things to consider when shopping around.
- Check Drive.com.au or CarSales.com.au and determine what you actually want to drive rather than blindly going to dealerships hoping you'll luck upon something you like.
- Get to the point when on the phone. The first dealer Adam called, he said "I don't want to waste my time coming out to your location; what's the best price you can do on the car?" He used that much lower price as leverage with each following person. Don’t for a minute think that the price listed is the price you are going to pay. Don't be afraid to walk away -- many dealers will have last second changes of heart and drop the price even more.
- Ask about the history and how many owners the car had. Check the boot and under the bonnet. Look for rust and uneven lines between body panels (sign of a collision).
- Always do a test drive even if you are only remotely interested. You don’t want to have to come back later to do this. Plus, you will only know if something is better or worse the more you have to compare it to.
- Ask about the rego and how much time is left.
- If you are purchasing from a dealership then ask about a warranty. Most were willing to throw in 12 months for free even after talking them down on price. They want to sell cards.
As of December 31, 2011 Adam and I are now husband and wife!! We had a long 26 hour flight to Tampa, Florida where lots of last minute wedding planning took place.
After a few long jet-lagged days we had an amazing time celebrating our nuptials and New Years Eve with all of our friends and family. Thank you so much to everyone for all your love and support. My only wish... that it didn't go by so fast.
Most of the artist are relatively unknown in the main stream world with the exception of an artist called Banksy, who maintained underground status for years until exploding on the scene back in 2007 where Adam and I first saw one of his exhibitions in NYC.
Here are some great pictures of the day.
I was on a Sydney Scavenger Hunt!
Today, I arrived back in The United States to get married to my best friend on New Years Eve!
The waves were a bit rough but we had a great time. The instructor was really cool and we were even able to stand up! Round 2 the following week was also a success and we are ready to book in round 3!
- Great beaches
- Great mountains not too far from the beaches
- Geography in general is strong to quite strong
- Great breakfasts -- better than the U.S.
- Easy outdoor lifestyle
- Not a week goes by that a Kardashian doesn't appear on a magazine cover (last week they were on the cover of at least five magazines) -- why is everyone so obsessed with these oxygen thieves?
- Pizza doesn't come close to a New York slice
- Come to think of it, almost nowhere offers slices
- Pizza places are only open for dinner
- Mmm...pizza
- Prices -- everything is ridiculously expensive
| Brothers. |
Just over one year ago, Adam and I landed in Australia for the very first time to begin our new adventure living abroad. Since then we have met lots of new people, seen lots of great places and now have a whole new insight into Australia.
Last November 2nd Adam and I walked down the street from our Double Bay sublet to the infamous Golden Sheaf to see the festivities and funky hats known for Melbourne Cup Day. I didn't understand all the hype for a 10 minute horse race and seems like a year later I still don't.
Being that this time around I am a working woman, I celebrated with my co-workers in true Aussie fashion. We started the day off like any other but by lunchtime we were all packed up and on our way to The London in beautiful Paddington.
We had a lovely sit down lunch with starters, bottles of Preseco, yummy food, and ended with chocolate brownie ala mode for dessert. We picked horses, placed bets, and sorted out everything for our office sweep. My lame self only bet $3 but since I ended up not winning I am pretty happy with that.
Overall, we had a really great time and Adam was even able to stop later in the day for a drink with IFG.
A great way to spent your weekend out of Sydney but not break the bank is by taking a road trip. There is so much to see and do just a couple hours outside of Sydney in any direction. A few weekends ago we went west to The Blue Mountains and this past weekend we went north to The Central Coast.
With a group of 10, we drove 1.5 hours north and rented a 5 bedroom house on Forresters Beach with the most beautiful views. We packed the weekend full of BBQ, beach, hiking, whale watching, game playing and relaxing.
Here is the link to the house that we stayed at. It was pretty great!
www.HorizonForresters.com.au
Here are some pictures from the weekend.
| making brekie |
| Whale breaching |
| Whale breaching |
| Hiking |
We drove another hour and a half to The Blue Mountains, where we saw the most picturesque views during a pretty grueling 2.5 hour hike. We started at the top of Echo Point, eased our way down the Great Stairway, and hiked through the forest before climbing straight up Furber Steps. The Great Stairway deserves its name; after we got to the bottom, no lie, I stopped and my legs were trembling. Shake it off! Furber Steps were just as hard but this time we were going up; at some stages I was literally pulling myself up the vertical steps gasping for air.
Sunday
After getting our act together we quickly got some brekkie to go and hit the road. We were running a bit behind schedule as we had booked a 12pm tour which was still an hour and a half farther out at the Jenolan Caves. Note that if you decide to do this then you should definitely book in advance. They are like movie times and they fill up fast, especially on a holiday weekend.
We spent a good hour and 40 minutes touring the cave. They are pretty amazing and the walk ranged from a tight squeeze through narrow tunnels to massive open rooms. One cave was so big that they have weddings in them and even host concerts.
We were super exhausted and on a tight schedule to get the rental car back by 530pm so we had to bust a move immediately following the tour. An hour later we were still at the caves because Adam had mistakenly left our lights on and burned the battery out. After a jump from one of the park staff we were on the road back to Sydney.
Andrew and I napped in the car and left the driving to Adam!
The Hilton was the northernmost resort. We stepped out of the taxi into a large, open-air lobby and were greeted with fresh lemonade and a round of "Bulas!" from the staff. Bula means "hello" and also "cheers", so it's the word you'll encounter the most in Fiji. Thanks to my Hilton Diamond status (the fruits of living at a Doubletree for 15 months in New Jersey), we were upgraded to a large 1-bedroom suite overlooking the grounds and ocean.
| View from one of the Hilton's pools. |
Sunday we hopped on a big ketch at the marina with about 40 other people to cruise out to an uninhabited island and go snorkeling for the day. The water was crystal clear and warmer than the resort's pool. We saw bright blue starfish, these little fish that were almost an electric neon purple, and tons of coral formations. Victor, the first mate to Captain Paul, impressed everyone by remembering the names of every guest on the boat correctly. Then we did a kava ceremony. Kava is made from the ground up root of a pepper plant and then mixed with water. It resembles muddy water in both color and taste. Kava is drunk from a bowl that is dipped into the large stoneware in which it is mixed, and then passed from one person to another. About twenty people had sipped from the bowl before it got to Sharon and me, which made me hope that no one had any transmittable diseases.
| View of the mountains from the road. |
He presented our guide for the day, Vika, his granddaughter -- a girl of 14 or 15 in a t-shirt, resort towel wrapped around her waist like a sarong, and bare feet. Sharon and I both took notice of her toes: spread out in a sturdy fashion, free of the deformation that comes from wearing shoes all the time.
The buildings gave way to some tobacco fields, which sloped down to a stream. We crossed over it and began heading uphill, ascending into dense jungle. After about twenty minutes, by which time I was dripping in sweat, we arrived at our destination: two waterfalls cascaded down the hills above, with one landing in a pool of water large enough to swim in. I lowered myself into the freezing water, hung out for about 30 seconds, decided I'd experienced enough of Stage I Hyperthermia and hustled back out.
| Hiking up to the waterfall. |
| The chief and his granddaughter making kava. |
| Getting some fresh coconut. |
| Sharon ready to ride. |
Historically, it was a poorer working class suburb and even after a little gentrification, most of the area is still pretty sketch; however, a small area of it is pretty and houses beautiful yachts and fancy restaurants.
| Something to strive for! |
Turns out we weren't impressed. Sorry Harry but your reputation is far superior to your meat pies.
After a subpar meat pie and an afternoon of exploring we decided to take a load off at the local pub and have a beer. Cheers!
We made our way to the second winery, called Joadja Vineyards, which happened to be the first winery in the region. The cellar door was a small cottage with stone floors and an Australian collie laying by a fire: it was the experience you'd expect from a distinguished winery. We tasted a few good wines, Tess and Scott added a few more bottles to their stock, and then we got back on the bus.
We eventually pulled into a private drive and chugged up a hill to a small house. We were ushered into a separate lodge-style room off to the side. A collection of kangaroos peered at us from farther up the hill. The owners, a couple in their 70s, had inherited the vineyard when they bought the property to retire on after spending their lives in England and South Africa.
On Tuesday morning we arrived back from our two week whirlwind tour of America. Like many holidays it was not a relaxing one. Because this was our first joint trip back since moving to Australia in November we had many stops to make.
First stop: Los Angeles
We had the pleasure of spending our 4th of July weekend with friends and family in LA. We spent a night in Costa Mesa with Adam's sister Sarah, brother-in-law Tim and brand new niece lil' Taylor. Then we headed to LA to stay with some great friends and celebrate America's Independence Day! We even got a special visit from Adam's brother Andrew who will be leaving in October for his second tour of Afghanistan.
| Tim, Sarah, Taylor, Me, Adam in Costa Mesa |
| Friends for dinner and drinks at Pink Taco, LA |
| Amazeballs on July 4th! |
Second stop: The Burgh (also known as Pittsburgh)
We flew to Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania for a quick 3 night stay to see Adam's family. We had a lovely time seeing his parents, his brother, his uncle, 2 aunts, 2 grandmas and a great aunt. Phew!
Third stop: Penn State
After our stay in The Burgh we took a bus to Penn State for our amazing friends' wedding. We got to see so many people and had a wonderful time. It was my first time at Penn State since I am originally from Florida and it was nice getting the tour. Congratulations to Renae and Travis Kochel!!!
| Us with the beautiful Bride and Groom |
| Chris Stewart/ The James Bond of Beer |
| The Bride and Groom |
Fourth stop: NYC!
After the wedding, on Sunday, we hitched a ride with our friend and headed to NYC! We went straight to our dear friends Luke and Mandy place where we crashed for the next 3 nights. First night there we had a lovely dinner at Mama Mexico with both my parents, Adam's mother, and Luke and Mandy. After dinner, we went and had some drinks at a cute wine spot along Riverside Park. The next couple days included shopping, dinner in Long Island with my family, more shopping, Happy Hour party at The Cooper Square Hotel with our amazing friends and then an early flight out next morning. I LOVE YOU NYC!
| Dinner with Family in Long Island |
| Drinks with friends at Cooper Square Hotel |
| Dinner with friends in East Village |
Our 4 nights and 5 days in Tampa went by fast. My mom picked us up at the airport Wednesday morning and then the madness began. Without even going home first, she drove us to our wedding venue to have our food tasting and meet with the florist. Then we were off to our first cake tasting. The next few days included looking at wedding invitations, another cake tasting, a gown fitting, lots of shopping, and an amazing co-ed shower hosted by my mother's amazing friends. About 50 people came and that included my sister and her boyfriend who flew down from Chi-Town and two of my bridesmaids: Megan Lathinghouse with her boyfriend and Heather Wiseman with her future husband-to-be. It was such a great time in Florida. Turns out we got a lot done and all thanks to my mother who so generously schlepped us around the whole time. Thank you Mom!
| With friends at our wedding shower. |
| My Mom and Shower Hostesses |
Now we're back in Sydney where it has basically poured every day all day! I just hope it doesn't rain this weekend because we are headed to Hunter Valley for some wine tasting.
Here in Australia, July is referred to as “Dry July.” This is because during the month of July people commit not to drink alcohol for the entire month in order to raise money for people living with cancer. It was started back in 2008 with just over 1,000 participants and now in 2011 it attracts over 9,500 participants and has raised almost $3.5 million. Dry July is not only about not drinking alcohol, its about clearing your head and making a difference. Get healthy, challenge yourself, encourage positive change and a healthy attitude to alcohol consumption.
This initiative was a surprising discovery in a country that drinks heavily. One of our friends said to us shortly after moving to Australia, "Remember how much you drank junior year of college? The best part of Australia is you'll drink that much the rest of your life."
My co-worker, among many, has signed up and already begun raising money for a good cause. After the work weeks we have been having I can only wish her the best of luck. You can see her profile here.
As I sit here on the airplane flying to L.A., we have decided not to participate this year since we are taking our first trip back to The United States together since moving here last November. We have lots of celebrating to do and thought maybe we could do dry August but it doesn’t have the same ring to it.
I love the idea of a whole country coming together with something fun to raise money for a charity. Is this something we could introduce back home? Anyone interested?
Today is a public holiday here in Australia and therefore, I do not have to go to work! We are honoring The Queen's birthday. Truthfully, I had no idea which Queen's birthday we were celebrating. My first thought was the Queen of England since we are apart of commonwealth. However, I was a little confused since my sister and brother-in-law, who live in London, aren't getting work off.
A little investigating, I call Google, and sure enough I find out that we are indeed celebrating the current monarch Queen Elizabeth II birthday. Her real birthday is April 21st but if every year we celebrated it on that day then many times it would coincide with Easter, which would mean one less day off... and we can't have that now can we?
So, in honor of The Queen's day of birth and not having to work.... Happy Birthday!
Balmain is one of Sydney's oldest working suburbs slightly west of the central business district (CBD). However, now it is a colorful and artistic suburb, home to some of Australia’s best-known writers, actors, film directors, musicians and artists. The main street of Darling is lined with stylish cafés, pubs, restaurants and shops. Just walking down the main street you can feel the energy and life of the cosmopolitan crowd.
Today we hopped on the train and bus to hit up a cute cafe for food and check out the weekly Saturday Balmain Markets.
I was hoping for brunch but by the time we sat to eat at 1pm I was already craving lunch. We hit up a fairly busy cafe called Fundamental which served surprisingly large sized meals. 'Merica style!
| Green Tea |
| Tuna Melt on Turkish Bread |
| Baked eggs in tomato with feta and chorizo |
On our way back up the main street we passed by Adriano Zumbo Patissier, which had a long line out the door. Probably something worth checking out but we (and I mean Adam) weren't interested in waiting in line.
So... instead we popped into the Cupcake Factory for a quick afternoon snack which was right around the corner. P.S. these were really soft, squishy cupcakes. Totally work my $3.
Overall, a great suburb worth checking out if you are in town or live here. I would love to go back and check out the night life.
5 years ago, while still living in New York City, my parents came to town for a visit my sister and me. Our plan was to wander around the fabulous city and see all that it had to offer. As we were walking through Washington Square Park we heard an amazing brass band playing, The Hypnotic Brass Ensemble. We joined the already existing crowd to hear the sweet jams. Instantly my older sister and I were hooked and agreed to go halvsies on a CD right there on the spot.
As it turns out that same summer, before Adam and I were even together, he too wandered through that same park and stumbled across HBE. Moved by the music just as I was he chose to buy one of their CDs as well.
Now here we are present day living in Sydney and what do I find on the Sydney Opera House website? None other than the Hypnotic Brass Ensemble playing on my birthday weekend. We instantly bought tickets!
Thank you to Adam for making my birthday far from home, far from family and friends so special!
Two of the coolest friends we have made since arriving to Australia recently got engaged. Due to the drama that usually follows planning a wedding, they opted out of that and plan on eloping. They had recently decided to do this in Vanuatu, a group of tropical islands near Fiji.
That being said, they decided to throw an engagement party before they ran off and got hitched. We were excited to hear that we were invited to this fun affair and quickly RSVP'd YES! We were instructed to arrive at 5:00 sharp as dinner would be served at 5:30. Adam and I thought that seemed early but thought nothing else of it.
So this past weekend we got all dressed up and headed to the historic district of The Rocks to a great restaurant called The Italian Village. Elma & Max, the soon-to-be-runaway bride and groom, rented out the whole top floor. It was beautiful! They stood at the entrance and greeted all their friends and family as they arrived.
| Max & Elma |
| Bride and Groom |
We also had the most amazing view of the Sydney Opera House from the room and turns out the wedding coincided with Vivid Sydney Festival of Lights, not to mistaken for the Jewish festival of lights. Max joked that he arranged this little show as part of the wedding celebration.
The Vivid festival is a two week event in Sydney's CBD, where light shows are project onto the Opera House and other buildings all night long. It might sound lame but it's pretty cool. On top of that there is a fire show -- not to be confused with fireworks, they literally just blast fire into the air -- on the hour every hour from 7pm-midnight
What a great night with great people! Congrats again to the wonderful newly wed couple Max & Elma!
| "At home in front of a space heater." |
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