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Creating a new genre for a new generation of classical music enthusiasts!
Pioneering Alternative-Classical Pianist · Therapy Concert Artist · Caregiving Advocate · Go Red For Women Ambassador · Stroke Ambassador · Official Magic Brat in the World & World's Youngest Illusionista · founder & host of Notes & Poets · Spiritual Meditation Artist
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- Summary"Mai-Ling :: Pioneering the genre of new sound for a new generation of classical music enthusiasts"
My Name is Frances Mai-Ling, I am a Pioneering Alternative-Classical pianist. It's a genre I created for the music I compose has a place in this world.It is new, exciting, relaxing and therapeutic. Its' Classical music with a twist. My father who's 84 and a 11 year post stroke survivor enjoys my music greatly. Not because he's my father, but the benefits of it being healing has helpful towards his recovery.I perform a concert program of original music that ncludes vocal and instrumental music, music written to theatrical and film productions, music inspired my nature, story and film, and music set to the text of Shakespeare. In addition to regular concerts I also perform therapy concerts in healthcare facilities. I created Notes & Poets, a place to showcase creative individuals talents. I am one of the original members of the Shake + Poe Project. Where we perform original music to the text of Shakespeare & Poe. I am also a published writer and visual artist.
I also work with the American Heart Association and its division the American Stroke Association as a Go Red For Women and Stroke Association Ambassador. Since 2002, I have been working hard to help create an awareness for heart disease and stroke through my CDs by putting awareness information and donating a portion of every sale to the AHA/ASA, being a pioneer in advocacy through music. In 2005 I created the "Take Heart Awareness Cause" to help in my crusade of educating people. Along with that, I give speaking presentations about caregiving. I have been recognized regionally and nationally and was awarded a "Heart & Stroke Heros" Award. I am also co-founder of EastWestNow Records, the first record label to promote artists who are Asian, with a focus of those who are half-Asian.
I'm currently working to release a new CD, two book projects in the subject of Magic and Caregiving.Specialties: MUSIC: Piano performance Film Scoring Theatre Scoring Shakespeare Text Producing, releasing and recording CDs Publishing Writer: Magic History Creative Poetry Prose Visual Artist: Most mediums Mainly wearable art: leather jackets and purses/bags Graphic Design: Commercial and Illustration Health: Caregiving, Ambassador for Heart & Stroke.EducationAdditional Information-
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BuyFirst album released since her 4 Sonata cassette. First album with original music. oneandahalf is a compilation of classical music, original instrumental music and her first releases of vocal music written in a span from 1993 through 2000. This is a newer album cover and Track #5 was changed from it's original title to the more current title.
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- May 14, 12
Because the photos I wanted to post didn't,
I've set up a gallery on the 'ole LJ.
Enjoy!
TAGS : http://pics.livejournal.com/mai_ling/tags/Bao-Bao/ - May 13, 12
Greetings my friends,
Happy Mother's Day!
I wanted to write to all of you, who have supported me throughout the years.
We have been through many things together in the past 15 years.
You have supported me musically, creatively and personally through so much.
Including:
The day my father had his massive hemorrhagic stroke on July 29, 1998.
To when mother passed away almost three years ago on May 29, 2009.
And because I feel a connection to everyone who has, I wanted to share some
exciting news. My husband Eric and I are expecting our first baby this summer,
on July 29th. We are very thrilled and couldn't be happier.
As you may notice it will be a birth and a re-birth as the day we are due
happens to fall on the 14th anniversary of my father's stroke. But it was also exciting
because we must have conceived around my mother's birthday.
We are busy preparing ourselves and home to welcome our precious baby.
And we are recording our thoughts and experiences in an upcoming book.
We have a website up with our registries.
So family and friends who would like to celebrate our future baby's arrival with us may do so. ♥♥♥
You can view it here:
http://www.about.me/emfm
I hope you are as excited about the sharing of our news of the next adventure of our life
as we are.
With Love,
~ Frances, Eric and Dad - May 07, 12
If you ever seen Criss Angel's 'Mindfreak'
you might have seen the episode where he does an
effect with a chain around the neck.
I believe it's in the first season.
Not sure what episode though.
So one day, I was watching this particular episode
with my father when he said... I brought that effect
to Dr. Harlan Tarbell and he wrote about it in his
Tarbell series.
What's ironic, is that my mother and I never knew
my father was in the Tarbell Course series. To be exact
Volume 6. Every magician owns the Tarbell series.
Well, almost every good magician does. However, my
father never did until the 1980's when my mom thought
he should have it in his collection. So she bought
a set from Uncle Jay (Marshall - the previous Dean
of American Magicians).
I had happen to come across a posting in the Genii
forum about this topic and I was soo excited I told
my mom and ran to Volume 6 in the magic room library.
I said, dad did you know you were in it. And he told me
the story. The weird part is you probably would never
realize it was my father because Harlan spelled his name
wrong. Instead of DeYip it DeNip.
My father was serving in Korea during WWII for the US
Army (drafted as a Chinese Citizen, another saga of it's own).
Where he saw someone do this effect. When he came back home
after being discharged he figured out how it was done.
It was when he became best friends with Uncle Jay and
Aunt Frances and was encouraged to join the Chicago Roundtable.
Where he became an original member. In the Salla poster he's
#68. This is where he met Harlan. He told him about this
effect and Harlan was intrigued by it. He asked my father
to describe the effect and at the same time drew him for
the course.
Almost 50 years later the effect has been resurrected by
not just Criss but also the Masked Magician. We also saw
him reveal the secret and dad put it to my attention as well.
But never knew the connection at the time.
Maybe the younger Criss Angel generation does not know
that my father is responsible for this effect but in many way's
Criss, the Masked Magician and a bunch of the kids who do
this on youtube are paying homage to the #1 Chinese Magician,
DeYip Loo...aka my father.
So let's just enjoy the video of Criss Angel performing this effect
and the original illustration as found in Harlan's Magic Course of dad.Criss Angel - Chain. Watch more top selected videos about: Criss angel he makes a chain come throug his neck, Criss will rap a chain around his neck and pull it through his neck
link: http://pics.livejournal.com/mai_ling/pic/000bxf97
This will be part of a series of writing exercises for
my massive two volume book project on my father :
MADE IN CHINA : The Magic & Life of DeYip Loo
#1 Chinese Magician - Apr 18, 12
There's nothing like magic and variety. Seeing people entertain
the masses with laughter and amazement. As my father alway's
reminds me what Dante told him. "If the audience doesn't laugh
then you're not entertaining them." Something I remind myself
as an entertainer. With the momentum of seeing Jason Bishop
perform my father's creation in his illusion show just 3 weeks prior.
We were looking forward to seeing another magic event.
Nothing Up My Sleeve is the conception of Nino Cruz & Glenn Chelius.
In 2002, they put together their first show, in which I waw fortunate
enough to be part of. It was a great idea to help the Raue Center
for the Arts, a beautiful theater situated in downtown Crystal Lake, Il.
That brings magic and variety to the northern suburbs to many people.
April 14th marked the 10th year of the show. We were invited by
Nino Cruz to come out and enjoy an evening of magic. We first met
Nino when he was performing close-up magic at the now long forgotten
restaurant Choo-Choo's. He's always respected my father for being
a magician who paved his own path from being an assistant of
Harry Blackstone, Sr. and Dante. Of course, his huge contribution
to the art and history of magic.
We arrived at the theater and were greeted by long time family friend
H. Rick Bamman. He's an amazing photographer in his own right, and has
been doing this since he was 13. His step-mother, as I always called
Aunt Marge was a very close friend of our family. As soon as we got
seated he started taking photos of dad.
The scrim showed highlights of posters, photos and adverts of past
NUMS show. I was surprised to see the spread from the Northwest Herald
with me on the top of cards. What a joy.
Then show began...
Opening the evening was Mark Presley Hawksins, aka Nerdgician.
A mute like magician, sorta in the way Okito would do his act, but
only because he was partially deaf.
He opened with a comedy bit with a magic elevator. It reminded
of the days when we worked with the Gitchy Brothers, a comdey duo.
Another highlight of his act was the "Butterfly in the Box." A very
elegant effect. Definitely takes the place of the dancing cane. He
closed with a cardboard box version of 'Modern Art.' I will say,
that he definitely promoted Home Depot for this illusion, I hope
he gets these boxes for free when he needs to replace them. I envy
the idea of using cardboard boxes when it comes to illusions, they
are easier on your back. The only other magician I have ever seen
do an illusion out of a cardboard box was Hans Moretti. However,
it was a very dangerous illusion.
We were then greeted by the hosts of the show Glen & Nino who then
introduced Paul Lee. Paul does a classic magic act. I know my father
appreciates seeing that, because that's the era he worked with. Paul
opened with the dove production and his routine went on to include
effects as torn and restore newspaper; audience participation with
children; the production of a beautiful Swedish Duck before the vanish
and the appearance of his cute dog Thurston. He closed with the classic
Houdini illusion metamorphosis, assisted by Karen Burris. His act
is always a joy to see.
Nino & Glenn came out again to do a card trick. It was a cute bit.
Where the gentleman came up to choose a card. Ironically, the theme
was "Card Shark." When neither of them came up with his card, the theme
music of Jaws was heard and a big helium shark started floating from
the balcony. As it started to get closer to the stage I was actually
bumped in the head by it's fin. Obviously, the shark had the correct
card.
They then introduced Geoff Akins Hannah, the Bubble Juggler. He does
a inspirational routine that is focus on bubbles. He has a very calm
demeanor that really brings the children to focus. He does several
different effects with bubbles that I've never thought of or seen
before. Like a bubble within a bubble, a trail of bubbles, the creation
of a square bubble. His act is accompanied by the song 'Anything is Possible'
that is written by his wife Jen Hannah.
Nino & Glenn came back on stage and Nino performed a hypnosis routine.
Six adults volunteered to be hypnotized. It was a classic well done
routine with the adults who were put under. From the lady who doesn't
remember the #7 and the other lady who spoke Alien. It was well done.
Luckily no one started barking like a dog.
After the routine we had a 15 minute intermission.
Where I know to run upstairs to the ladies room so I don't have to stand
in line. When I came back, Marshall Brodien was talking to dad and Eric.
Rick was taking several photos of them together.
It's always a joy to see Marshall and his wife Mary. My father and
Marshall go way way back. He's always been good to dad, and they are
as close as brothers. He credits my father for giving him a really
good start in the business, and even sold him his first tuxedo for
$15. What a deal. They worked together several times. Since my father
was the first magician to perform on Chicago's Bozo Circus, it really
helped kicked the doorway for Marshall which led him to creating the
character of Wizzo. I always remembered when I was in 6th grade, my
mom's cousin got us tickets for the show because he was a producer of a
WGN radio show. We didn't have to do the 10 year wait. Obviously
with my parents ties to the show, it didn't even matter, we could
go whenever. Anyway, we sat in the front, my p's sat in the corner
top back row. Al Hall, always gave seats to them. I never knew until later
why we were blocked from commercials and how come I never got on the
grand prize game...connections. Either way, I was luckier than many
kids. After the taping, we had lunch with everyone and it was a wonderful
day. I had a photo taken with Cookie the Clown selling him Girl Scout
Cookies. I later realized by my friend Tom that it was a rare photo
because Cookie isn't wearing his tie nor his gloves.
Later in the evening we were shocked to hear the news that Frazier Thomas
passed from a eschemic heart stroke attack. It was sad.
Marshall, Dad and Eric
Intermission came to a close and we were greeted by Nino & Glenn,
where they introduced the highlight of the show that traveled
all over the world and came from Berwyn, Illinois... The Son of Wizzo.
Which was actually performed by the son of wizzo... marshall, jr.
He did a really nice job with his routine. A lot of comedy that made
everyone laugh. He did a cute bit with the Nerdgician where he ended up
with a cream pie in the face. A classic effect. The Son of Wizzo also
invited Noah Simmons, a young ventriloquist up on stage with his dummy
Charlie McCarthy. My father recognized Charlie straight away for good
reason. He knew Edgar from the days of the Chicago Roundtable. If you
look on the Salla poster, you see my father (who is #68) and above is
Edgar Bergen & Charlie. And those who do not realize who Edgar Bergen
is...he is the father of actress Candance Bergen. Noah did a great job
and I'm sure we'll see more of him in the future and we'll see
Marshall's routine as the Son Wizzo. It will bring memories of his
father's creation and new memories for a new generation.
Nino & Glenn came out and did another routine. This time shining
on Glenn's talent as a vent with his Harry the Hare who wanted to
be called Haredini. Who did a handcuff routine where Haredini
escaped from. It was very clever.
They then introduced Mark Faje, the world's most dangerous comic.
This was my second time seeing Mark perform. He left a very good
impression on me after seeing him at the MCA weekend banquet show
in 2008. I loved the danger and the comedy associated. A true
professional and gentleman on stage. He started with the lighting
of a cigarette with a match that he juggled behind his back caught
in his mouth. He also tossed a ball behind his back and caught it
with the temple of head. He also went on to do this with a bocci ball.
Juggled ping pong balls from his mouth. I was hoping he do at least 4 balls,
oh well. Mark wanted to show how easy it was juggle and needed an assistant.
Eric and I were in the front row and he was eyeing Eric, and came up
directly to him. Eric declined only because he's too shaky to juggle.
So the guy next to me went up. Luckily Eric declined because he would
be juggling a machete. He then juggled two clubs and a buzz saw.
Mark closed with a dangerous feat. As before with the previous except
throwing a bowling ball from is foot to land on his the temple of his
head, with a lighted flame, two steak knives, and a scorpion in his pants.
Yes kids, don't try this at home. Unfortunately, there was a kid who really
freaked out and his mother left the audience. But I know these dare devils,
they wouldn't do unless they knew they can, and of course Mark did.
A great finish to a great evening.
We waited until everyone emptied the theater and I spoke with Rick
for a bit, and some more to Marshall and Mary as we left the theater.
We stayed for a while before heading home.
It was a very enjoyable evening. It brings back memories back from the
day of the Mather High School Shows. We need more variety shows like this
in the area. I did produce a few for a while but not since 2006. The
III Sheeters are no longer which did yearly events. As of lately, there's
not many, and there should be. So many wonderful performers to showcase
and a public who hungers for this type of entertainment. - Apr 03, 12
On Sunday, went for a shop because we needed milk and some bread at Walmart.
We found that Walmart has the best deal for a gallon of milk.
Eric can not live without milk, and right now I've been eating
cereal at least 2-3x a week at the moment.
Got some good deals and freebies.
One thing I learned with couponing that Walmart will stack your
manufacturer coupons when it comes to a certain amount off and a B1G1Free coupon.
Where as Meijer won't.
The list will explain itself.
April 1st Super Walmart
1 gallon of milk $1.78
2lb of boxed mashed potatoes $2.78
Idahoan Potato Bits $1.13 (-.55 coupon)
2 Stuffings $2.00
48oz Smuckers Grape Jam $1.23 (-.75 coupon)
Manwich $1.00
Barilla Thin Spaghetti $0.28 (-1.00 coupon)
3 Ramen Noodles $0.60
2 Glade Aerosol Refreshers FREE (-2.00 coupon)
2 water refills $0.74
2 Crave cat treats $0.83 (-.55 coupon + Buy 1 Get 1 Free)
Total $18.28
April 3rd Super Target
I learned about a really yummy ice cream that is sugar free and lactose free.
And when I say sugar free, no artificial sweetner (YAY)!It's called Clemmy's.
I got Chocolate and it's so yummy, dark and creamy. Like Ben & Jerry's. I got
it at a good deal on clearance too.
I did two transaction because I had double coupons I wanted to use.
Plus I had a $20 gift card so in the end I only ended play $1.92
Transaction #1
1 Glade Aerosol Spray $0.12 (-$1.00 coupon)
1 MP Fish Sticks $2.69 (-$1.00 coupon)
3 Clemmy's 16oz Chocolate Ice Cream $3.18 (normally $3.99 each)
3 MP Tomato Soup $1.01 (-$1.00 coupon)
2 Totino's $5.00 (-$1.00 coupon)
1 MP Chicken Burrito FREE (-$1.00 coupon)
Total : $12.68
paid with a gift card
Transaction #2
1 Glad Aerosol Spray $0.12 (-$1.00 coupon)
2 Green Giant Frozen boxed vegetables $1.00 (-$0.50 coupon)
1 Reach Floss $0.02 (-$1.00 coupon)
3 MP Tomato soup $1.01 (-$1.00 coupon)
4 Pillsbury Toaster Strudels $6.87 (-$1.40 coupon plus Buy 3 Get 1 Free)
1 MP Chicken Burrito FREE (-$1.00 coupon)
Total : $7.32
paid all with gift card but $1.98
April 3rd Meijer Shop
I was quite disappointed with my shopping experience tonight at Miejer.
I thought like Walmart you could use a coupon plus a B1G1F coupon but I
couldn't and the lady who checked me out was a pain in the ass. In the
end I did pay for the items but because it bothered me so much I went back
after going to Walmert to return them. I ended up received a $12.39 refund.
She also wouldn't let me use the FREE Milk coupon with the extra cereal with
the white bread. Well, it's Meijer's loss. I ended up going to Walmart afterward
with no issues. You'll see why.
11 head lettuce $2.75
2 Loaves of White Bread $1.56
5.16 lbs of Green/Red Grapes $6.09
2 Dozen Eggs for $1.21 (-$0.55 coupon)
1 Country Crock for $0.50 (-$1.00 coupon)
4 Kellogg Cereals for $2.00 (Buy 4 get $2 off instantly plus -$4.00/4 Kellogg Cereal Coupon)
Total $14.11
April 3rd Super Walmart
So after what happened at Meijer we drove to Walmart.
I wanted to use my FREE Milk coupon, and although milk is reasonable
$1.78 is a $1.78. Anyway, I found 3 breakfast items for $3.
We bought some clothes on clearance so my shopping trip evened out when
I returned the items to Meijer.
5 pieces of baby clothes $11.00
3 vegetable seed packets $1.50
2 pouches of Quacker Oats Quick Oats $2.00
1 Aunt Jemima Maple Syrup 4pk Oatmeal $1.00
1 gallon of milk FREE (buy 3 breakfast items get 1 gallon of milk free)
Total $16.46
So it was a good shop day.
go us! - Mar 29, 12
Finally got to Angelo's after almost 2 weeks.
Not bad considering we hadn't need any deli items
or produce.
Got some good deals on fruit so here's how it rounded out:
2 Head Lettuce for $0.88
1 lb of Mushrooms for $0.99
2 lbs of Cream Cheese Bricks for $1.78
1/2 gallon of Orange Juice for $1.29
3 pkgs (16 at 7.5 lbs) of pears for $1.37
3 pkgs (12 med-lrg at 6.25 lbs) of tomatoes for $2.41
1 lb of Virginia Ham at $2.98
1.12 lb of Domestic Swiss at $4.47
1.2 lb of Genoa Salami at $3.63
1 lb of Mozzarella at $3.23
1 lb of Oil & Vinegar Coleslaw for $1.95
1 lb of Farefella Pasta at $0.50
Total $25.11 with tax
Not bad... - Mar 19, 12
Eric & I went shopping after he was done with working and
there were some stuff we wanted to get that were a good
deal and we had coupons for.
Everything we bought had a coupon or coupon stack for
except for one item.
The total bill ended up being $60 before the coupons
and with the coupons it was $30. So we saved 50%
of our savings.
3 MP Tomato soups for $.86 ($1 Target coupon)
3 pkgs of Totino's (48 ct for ea pkg) for $7.25 ($1 Target/ $0.75 manf coupon)
1 Glad Expression Starter Kit for $0.49 ($2.00 Target / $1.00 manf coupon)
1 Palmolive 20 oz Aloe Dish Soad for $0.97 ($1.50 Target / $0.50 manf coupon)
2 Kraft Dressings for $3.27 (on clearance w/ $1.00 Target coupon)
1 Hidden Valley Dressing for $1.54 ($1.00 manf coupon)
2 Revlon Beauty Tools : Nail Clipper & Cleaner Trimmer for $1.00 ($5.00 Target coupon)
1 Up & Up Vitamin Pills for $6.34 ($1.00 Target coupon)
2 Beneful Baked Dog Treats for $3.14 ($0.75 Target coupon / B1G1Free manf coupon)
1 Silk Soy Milk & 1 Post Raisin Bran cereal for $1.75 ($2.00 Target coupon / $1.00 Silk
manf coupon / $1.00 Post Post Raisin Bran manf coupon)
1 Land O' Lakes Butter with Canola Oil for $1.51 ($0.40 manf coupon
plus a rebate for a free coupon for a LOL Cinnamon Sugar Butter)
1 Chicken Burrito for FREE ($1.00 Target coupon)
1 Market Pantry Garlic Mashed Potatoes for $2.55
Not bad...
Go Us!
\m/ - Mar 13, 12
I stopped at Walgreen's and Dominick's to pick up a few items
because they were a good deal.
Walgreen's has 6 pk of Scott Natural Paper towels for $5.00
with the Walgreen's $1.00 off coupon it's $4.00.
I had gotten a coupon from Walgreen's catalina machine,
a Manf. Coupon from Scott for $2.00 off any item in
store over $2.00. So I decided to pick up another pack
of towels and got them for $2.02 with tax after coupons.
Then I stopped by Dominck's to pick up some of Ken's Salad
Dressing and Nancy Martin Bread.
Dominick's had a coupon for Ken's Dressing for $1.19 each.
I had two of them. Plus two manf. coupons for $1.00/2 or
$1.00/1. Plus they had Nancy Martin Bread for $.59 with the
Just For You rewards.
So I did two transactions.
One with 2 Ken's Dressing and one Nancy Martin Wheat Bread
which came out to $2.08
And one with 1 Ken's Dressing and one Nancy Martin wheat
bread which came out to being $0.82 cents.
Overall not bad.
Go me! - Mar 12, 12
Monday's are the day I shop at Super Target because
Eric works at the Mundelien & Vernon Hills.
So I gathered all my coupons with my list and we
headed over to the M & VH so after he was done at
VH I can shop.
Grocery Shopping at Super Target was fun today with
the exception that the lady wouldn't let me use the
Target coupon for $1 off any market pantry frozen
chicken item...which I was planning to use (and
others did) on a .89 cent Chicken Burrito = to being FREE.
I'll try next wee with a cashier that knows Eric.
Anyway... Two Transaction that only costed me a total of $8.55
2 : Planters Peanut Butter (<1lb size medium) $3.00-$1.00 coupon = $4.00 for the two
3 cans of MP tomato soup @ .62 cents each - $1.00 coupon = .29 cents each = .
86 for the three
2 each MP pasta and pasta sauces $2.00 - $1.00 Target coupon = $1.00 each = $2.00 total for the 2 pasta and 2 pasta sauces
1 : MP peanut butter fudge ice cream $3.29 - $1 Target coupon = $3.29
1 : up&up multivitiman gummies $7.34 - $1 Target coupon = $6.34
1 : 3pk of Dentyne Gum $2.00 - $1 manf coupon - $1 Target coupon = FREE
Then we shopped at Angelo's:
Where I spent $25.00 on fruits, veggies, deli cheese, meat and salad
7.34 lbs of Bananas @ .44 cents a pount with a .15 off a lb coupon = $3.36
1lb Mozzarella Cheese @ $3.05 - $1 manf coupon = $2.05
1lb Baverian Smoked Ham @ $2.89
1lb Provolone Chese @ $3.53
1/2 lb Potato Egg Salad @ $1.70
1/2 lb Potato Develed Egg salad @ $1.91
2 pkgs of grapefruit @ .55 & .59 cents
3 pkgs of tomatoes @ .57 & .57 & .52
2 pkgs of lemons @ .59 each
4 pkg of Spinach @ .49 cents each
2 pkgs of grapefruit @ $.57 each
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I think I did OK.
Only wish there were coupons for gasoline.
:/ - Mar 12, 12
10 iceburg lettuce @ .25 cents each
7 Activia Parfait Yogurts (4 @ .27 cents each & 3 @ .55 cents each)
2 Summer Squash @ .43 cents each
1 Angel Hair Shredded Cabbage @ $1.07
1 bag of Dole Salad (spinach/carrot) Blends FREE w/ manf coupon
= $6.50 ...
go me!
\m/ - Feb 22, 12
- Feb 21, 12
Happy Paczki Day!
(happy fat tuesday too)
Don't forget some of these...
tag: http://pics.livejournal.com/mai_ling/pic/000acf39/g6 - Feb 02, 12
Ever since I heard about the MacArthur Fellowship years ago,
I have secretly wished that someone would put my name in the
mix.
It probably seems unrealistic, but maybe unrealistic goals are
a good thing.
In the past 14 years, I've really strive to grow personally,
artistically, creatively, and professionally. These are in several
areas, not just one, but with the same focus in mind. I think I've
accomplished a lot and made strides in unusual areas that
many have never thought about attempting.
To this day, I still have a lot of goals I want to accomplish.
In my time, I will accomplish them, whether I were to receive
one or not.
My passion for what I do, would make me a worthy candidate and
one they would be proud of. I hope that someday, my name will
be nominated anonymously.
I believe I am someone who stands up for their mission that I
"show exceptional merit and promise for continued and enhanced creative work."
and that I am "...an investment in a person's originality, insight, and potential."
I will keep my wishful thinking that all the good things I do
will come to fruitation, in due time.
more later...
<3 - Feb 01, 12
My always Nancy Kwan
from Flower Drum Song.
She's 1/2 Chinese and 1/2 British
50-50 just like me.
:D - Dec 29, 11
Just a note that I will be creating my end-of-the-year
gift to all my listeners and supporters.
I'm just behind. But it will be finished.
<3 - Dec 01, 11december 1st = day without art
december 1st = world aids day
means you are allowed to be naked for a day.
december 2nd you put your clothes back on.
in memory of chuck
http://www.worldaidsday.org - Oct 03, 11
Growing up in a predominately caucasian area wasn't the easiest.
Nor was was being half Chinese and half Polish.
In the 1970's, interacial marriages were frowned up.
To add to the pain, so were interacial children.
Growing up interactial and not being socially accepted was
not easy. You look funny and talk funny because one parent
has an accent that you don't hear.
This was what it was like for me growing up.
It caused me a lot of emotional pain but it also created
an identity crisis that took me a long time to
over come and find who I am.
I don't know if the trials and tribulations I endured
have helped me become a stronger person but
I would not allow a child today to go through it today.
Times are are tougher today than it was 30 years ago.
Peer pressure is even harder for kids to cope with.
Teen Suicide is at a all time high.
Whether it be from this or even sexual orientation.
I had loving parents and I knew that no matter what
people said about me and made me feel, I had to
realize that I was a unique person inside.
"Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me."
As for today, who bullies me now?
There are certain people today, who feel they have some sort of authority
that makes them better than you. They think they are criticizing
you but they aren't. There's a difference in critique where it
helps make you a better person in what you do. Where as the
opposite effect only hurts the person who judges you in order
to make them and their ego feel better.
I don't allow it to get to me.
I don't tolerate airing dirty laundry out in public to
boost a person's self- esteem.
But I don't give them the satisfaction of creating
a reaction out of me so they know that it's bother me.
I just work around it.
Mom's best advice...
Silence is Golden. - Sep 23, 11
I've always had a very time difficult reading.
I don't know why but it's not in my blood to read huge volumes of
books unless I'm completely compelled to do so.
I think it has to do with the way my eyes focus and
keeping my attention span from being short.
Part of it my time to devote to reading a book.
I've never been a fiction type of person, more of a journal
reader and history type of read. I love reading magazines
and stories of interest. That being of technological, personal,
creative to technique in specific areas of interest.
But I do have something up my sleeve when it comes to reading
long complete books. I have three books that have changed my life.
These have been read within the last oh... 5 years or so.
These are in no particular order but I shall explain each one and why.
1. The Republic of Love by Carol Shields
I love watching interesting movies and tv shows, and I have never been
compelled to read a book based from a film and read it. But it did
happen once. I was at the library one day and I saw the film movement
series on the shelf and the title "The Republic of Love" stood out and
called to me. It's story set and filmed in Toronto. Anyone who knows
me extremely well, Toronto calls to me like a cup of strong coffee
from Tim Horton Donuts. I had to watch it. This is when I feel in
love with the actor Bruce Greenwood.
He was soo perfect in the roll as was, Emelia Fox. I watched this film
probably 3 of 4 times before returning it to the library. I think I took
the film about a half dozen times. I sat their catching phrases and
jotting them down. Until I learned there was a book and took it out
right away. It took me about 6 weeks to read it from cover to cover.
But I was writing down ideas and things that inspired me. That I found
myself inspired enough to write a song entitled "Only Enchantment."
It's still one of my favorite books and films.
2. Hiding the Elephant by Jim Steinmeyer
This was the first book I ever read by Jim. He's a personal friend
who has written countless books and worked for some major theme
parks, film studios, broadway shows and some amazing magicians.
When I first started working on my book project four years ago,
I was uncertain as to how to begin the writing process. I felt I
needed a guide or muse per se. And Jim's book was available at
the library. I read through it as if I never knew anything about
magic or even any history of it. Well, in a sense that is very
true. I learned a lot from Jim and even more about myself. It's
one of the best books out there for anyone who wants to learn
about history without going over your head. I once told Jim
that I learned a lot from his book. He said that was a great compliment
coming from someone who lived through a lot of magic in their life.
3. The Glorious Deception: The Double Life of William Robinson,
aka Chung Ling Soo, the "Marvelous Chinese Conjurer" by Jim Steinmeyer
This book garnered rave reviews. And I was already hooked onto
Jim's writing style. I had to read it. This book was even longer
than 'Hiding.'The difference between this book and 'Hiding' was
that this is solely on one person and the previous was about
an overview of magic. I had to read this because this story
intrigued me but is also helped me read a writing style on
one person alone. The amount time and effort it took for Jim
to compile and tell William Robinson's story. I was drawn to
the book, the story and words Jim put on paper. It helped
shaped my ability to research and piece together important
information for my own book. This is a must read.
Currently I'm looking to find time to read Jim's most current
book on Thurston. Being that I have a connection to Thurston
via Dante with my father, it's helps me understand one
of the most interesting magician that garnered the title,
"The World's Greatest Magician."
It has gained excellent reviews and made many
top 10 lists including TIME magazine. I have the up most respect
for Jim and he's been a constant supporter in my book project
on my father. It also helps that he's been inspired by him as well.
So that sums up my three books that changed my life.
and in both a educational and creative way.
o/o - Sep 22, 11
I was told once that I was funny and that I should be a comic.
But the problem with that, is that I never thought I was funny.
Yeah, I make funny comments, lines, jokes, scenarios and obscurely funny ideas.
But who doesn't.
OKAY okay, maybe that does mean I am humorous.
But what is humorous?
I don't mean that funny bone in your elbow err arm area-ish.
I sometimes look funny, maybe more tired these days.
But honestly, I like being entertained.
However, it seems that I've been doing more the entertaining lately.
In recent years, I've become a better communicator and storyteller.
It's not something I was born with, and all the schooling in the world
(minus the amazing speech therapist I had from K-8) never once
made a difference.
My abilities with being humorous and giddy and oddly but slightly funny
came from the school of hard knocks.
So which am I?
I guess I'm bi-funnygiddy girl.
Did I make you laugh or did you just make me smile?
You tell me. - Sep 22, 11
Passion.
I am not able to do things with a full attention without passion.
It drives me to move forward and accomplish personal goals.
Reaching and hopefully exceeding them.
It's not about the critics of your field approving of what you do,
it about those everyday people finding what you do inspiring and reach a new level of emotion.
If I have done that, then I have succeeded. - Sep 16, 11
oy!
I needed it because I can't watch my friend Matt on his new show
"Michael: Tuesdays & Thursdays"
that airs on CBC on Wednesday night
It also stars Bob Martin (The Drowsy Chaperone)
Hello, why don't you tell me how i can help you?
> I CAN'T WATCH THE SHOW
What is it that you really want to know?
> why i can't watch the show
How do you know you can't watch the show?
> because i'm not in canada
What other reasons might there be?
> cbc is blocking me
They do have some fine programming, especially on wednesdays at 9pm.
> i know
And?
> i want to see matt act on the show
Why do you want to see matt act on the show?
> cuz he's my friend
Do your friends pick on you?
> no
Are you saying no just to be negative?
> no
You are being a bit negative.
> you are too
Why do you think that about me?
> cuz you are
You're not really talking about me, are you?
> yes i am
Did you come to me because you are?
> no
Your point being?
> I CAN'T WATCH THE FUCKING SHOW
Have you asked such questions before?
> no
No?
> not until now
What does that suggest to you?
> you're not a very good therapist
What makes you think i am not a very good therapist?
> you're not helping me
Perhaps you would like to be not helping you.
> boo
I see.
> ha
What does that suggest to you?
> you're not a very good therapist
Do you sometimes wish you were not a very good therapist?
> i think you do
Do you really think so?
> yes
Is there more to this than that?
> no
Is there more to this than that?
> no
Are you saying no just to be negative?
> no
Is there more to this than that?
> no
Why do you repeat yourself?
> because you are
Is that the real reason?
> yes
Are you sure?
> yes
I see.
> good bye
What's that supposed to mean?
> exactly
Hmmm... how does that make you feel?
> frustrated
Can you clarify that a bit?
> no
Your point being?
> exactly
Let me write that down...
> - Sep 06, 11
Sure. i'll let my husband do the work for me.
I would be less stress about things.
and I'll just make sure I can call everyone
instead or make a point of visiting my
friends from all ends of the earth. - Aug 11, 11Pictures of Being
Talking to my residents about the ocean makes me wish I was there...
so I made it up as if I was! :)
What a beautiful day August 10th was!
It's a rare treat to have such beautiful weather.
Despite the mosquitoes, I didn't miss the hott or the humid.
Starting off with Watermelon Day on August 9th was super fun.
I had Watermelon waiting for us in the Fridge for dinner.
Celebrating Watermelon Day knowing Watermelon Mama is
in heaven looking over us brings joy to me.
Playing a concert for one of my resident facilities. Enjoying
time with them was joyful and ending it a quick date out with
my sweetie to McDonald's in Richmond.
I had a wonderful Birthday!
The first thing I did was get breakfast ready for dad.
Got him out of bed and wished him a Happy Father's Day.
After all, 36 years ago he did become a father.
I also wished mom a Happy Mother's Day too.
After he ate and got dressed he watched his morning
movie "Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade"
I received a call from Eric's Grandmother in Wheaton,
right before getting ready to leave for her therapy session.
Their internet is down so she couldn't send me an email.
Then Aunt Susie called and sang her version of Happy Birthday
over the phone.
Eric and I went out to Walgreen's to get some stuff for his
Grandp's walkers before lunch. We basically all had leftover's
for lunch because I had a concert early afternoon. So after
we were finished I got dad up and ready to get to my Jeep
so we can leave for Buffalo Grove.
I normally never schedule concerts around special occasions
but since my schedule is pretty much set I wasn't going to screw
it up with moving days around. And to be honest, I love performing
for my residents.
Bringing joy of my music to their hearts and ears is the best gift.
I had the chance to share a special day with them and them with me.
And they throughly enjoyed every moment of it.
In fact, it went by way tooo fast!
After I was done, we drove home. Eric had set up the fountain we had
found at a rummage sale over the weekend in the garden. It was a steal!
Not sure what we paid for it but we got a bunch of stuff for $5.
I got dad in and comfortable in the house
and then went out in search for the short spare ribs. I drove out to Dominick's
since he used to get them there, but no luck. No one sells the little spare ribs!!
The lady at Jewel didn't know what I was talking about either.
I was totally heartbroken because I really wanted to cook spare ribs chinese style
with black bean sauce. But nooo , no one has them. The only person who knew
what I was talking about was Diane at Sunrise and she said they are soo expensive
now with all the chef's using them in their recipies. And the only place she can
fine them is at Sam's Club and it's like $20 for a small package. I will probably
check Meijer's to see if they sell them. Just in case. I can make them for
the Weekend.
IF ANYONE know of where I can find them... let me know!!!! Pls. Thx.
Anyway. I ended up buying Beef Tips and Pot Roast instead. So we head home
and I start devising dinner. I've been trying to be as creative with all the home
grown tomatoes we have growing in our garden.
For dinner we had:
beef tips in burgundy sauce, pot roast, homegrown tomatoes w/ mozzarella & fried onions, mashed potatoes,rice & cantaloupe salad
The fruit at Aldi's have been really really reasonable. Cantaloupe particularly. YummM!
Afterward's we watched America's Got Talent. To see how well our friend Brett Daniels did.
Unfortunately he didn't make it to the next round.
Don't worry Brett Michael's... uh I mean Daniels... you will always be a great!
Then we watched Legend Quest. Which was the first time I have ever seen. It was interesting.
Then some news and Jay Leno then I watched a little Stargate SG-1.
Birthday week continues with a concert in Woodstock tomorrow then driving up
to Milwaukee for the NOH8 campagin photo shoot. Can't wait for that!
Then Saturday we are going to Veggie Fest in Naperville!
Sunday just things until Wednesday when we celebrate Eric's Birthday.
I have concert's Tuesday through Friday next week. So it's busy then I'm
OFF for the rest of August. Then August will be over. :(
But not yet...I shall enjoy every moment of the month.
Here's some photos from being 36...
My Quirky Eric <3
My Loveable Dad! <3
View the rest of the photos here:
http://pics.livejournal.com/mai_ling/tags/36.
Thank you for all the Birthday Wishes from all over the world.
Each one of you make this day even more special!
xo
<3
for past entries of Pictures of Being go here:
http://mai-ling.livejournal.com/tag/pictures%20of%20being - Jul 29, 11
Today dad is 13 years old...
It is the anniversary of my father's massive hemmoraghic stroke.
13 years ago he survived an attack on his brain.
He was only 72 years old.
My mom was only 57.
I was 22 just a week and a half from my 23rd birthday.
It was the most difficult part of my life I had ever been through.
Aside from my mother passing 2 years 2 months ago, also today.
When my father had his stroke, he knew it.
I was home and he called for me and told me he was having one and to
call EMT servies which arrived within 5 mins.
I heard the sirens before I got off the phone.
They took him to NIMC ER within 30 and although he could have had
TPA he had a hemmoraghe. We waited 6 hours until we knew for
sure he could have a a craniotomy.
They only gave him a 5% chance to survive.
And even after the surgery he may not survive ...
but he did.
3 months in the hospital (4 days ICU, 2 weeks MCU, 3 weeks Extended Care and
2 months in inpatient rehab)
2 months of home health care
8 months of outpatient rehab
A nurse who was on the floor my mom was during her stay prior to her passing
remembered my father, and she said they didn't expect him to be around this long.
Well it's been 13 years.
He's 85.
He's healthy and happy.
And still rocks the world.
Love you dad!
in-patient rehab 1998
39th MCA weekend 2007
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