When I was a kid I was quite the hustler. Lunar New Year always meant family reunions and a house full of guests, eating lots of delicious food, exchanging scripted but sincere wishes for good health and prosperity, little red envelopes with money for the kids, and playing various games, especially black jack. I’m sure there’s some sort of strategy with playing the game (I have no idea how ’cause it seems like just random chance to me) but I always made out like a bandit since we played for money. I remember one year I had the biggest wad of ones in my back pocket that my only option of sitting was to do so lopsided. There have been many strange incidents of me having the ability to pick and choose the winning number or picture or seat, etc, and my dad always said he couldn’t wait to take me to a casino once I was of age ’cause he thought I had a lot of luck. Haven’t been yet but would like to see if I can bank on this so-called luck.
We spent this past weekend in Pennsylvania with my family to celebrate (this year, the first day of the New Year happened to be on Valentine’s) and I learned more about the customs that are associated with what is probably the most important holiday in the Vietnamese culture. Apparently the things you do, the kind of people you encounter, your temperament, etc, on the first day will determine the fortune for your year. So if good things come to the family on the first day of the Lunar New Year then the entire year will be full of blessings. I wore new clothes (which you’re supposed to do even though I didn’t know that) and my mom was very quick to take her friend’s baby out of the mother’s arms and into mine to see how the baby would react to me. Sophia (who’s 4 months old) was nothing but smiles and I honestly didn’t want to let her go (she is seriously one of the happiest and most adorable babies I have ever met and I wish I had a picture to prove that it’s true). My mom got all excited and told me it was a good sign and then I realized why she threw a baby at me on this day. Every time we visit she always asks if we have good news for her yet :)
The ochna integerrima has flowers that are similar to cherry blossoms except they’re yellow. In Vietnamese, they’re called “bong mai” and it’s the traditional flower for the New Year (in the south) because of its bright yellow color (which symbolizes luck) and the abundance of it being seasonal at this time of year. My mom is always excited about bringing this tree into the house every year and though there weren’t many blooms on it while we were there, I managed to capture the budding few.

LANCASTER, PA
