It’s told that true self-actualization can come from one having it all and then losing it all. To know the feeling of uninterrupted joy only to be taken to a place of persistent sorrow.
In essence, a being can only view its self worth when it has experiences the widest range of emotions and experiences. To have seen the brightest light and the darkest corner in existence. Losing it all is the only way to pay attention to what you really think about yourself.
So remember to love the good times and the bad because they make up who you are. Only you can decide what to do with yourself in the long run.