twenty-one. austin texas. soon to be music/recording arts major. sign of cancer to a t (except for the clingy part). independent. introverted. lover. daydreamer. over-analyzer. still figuring things out. a work in progress.
music: aaliyah. a perfect circle. alice in chains. at the drive-in. ayumi hamasaki. babes in toyland. bad brains. bat for lashes. björk. blonde redhead. bob dylan. brand new. britney spears. christina aguilera. crosses. crystal castles. danity kane. death from above 1979. deerhunter. deftones. dum dum girls. elliott smith. explosions in the sky. fever ray. fleet foxes. fleetwood mac. florence + the machine. foster the people. gorillaz. hum. incubus. joy division. kanye west. kate bush. kid cudi. lady gaga. le butcherettes. lupe fiasco. lykke li. m83. metric. mumford & sons. muse. my bloody valentine. namie amuro. natalia kills. nine inch nails. nirvana. porcupine tree. queens of the stone age. radiohead. rihanna. ringo deathstarr. silversun pickups. simon & garfunkel. sleigh bells. sneaker pimps. stars. team sleep. the beatles. the black keys. the blood brothers. the cure. the jesus & mary chain. the naked & famous. the mamas & the papas. the mars volta. the smiths. the weeknd. tv on the radio. utada hikaru. washed out. yeah yeah yeahs.
film: (500) days of summer. 16 candles. a clockwork orange. all the president's men. almost famous. american beauty. american history x. back to the future. brick. brokedown palace. catch me if you can. city of god. cruel intentions. dazed & confused. donnie darko. edward scissorhands. eternal sunshine of the spotless mind. fear & loathing in las vegas. fight club. garden state. gia. girl, interrupted. heathers. high fidelity. inception. kill bill vol. 1&2. let the right one in. little miss sunshine. lolita. memento. metropolis. moulin rouge. mulholland dr. nosferatu. office space. one flew over the cuckoo's nest. pleasantville. pulp fiction. rear window. saved! se7en. taxi driver. the butterfly effect. the departed. the devil wears prada. the royal tenenbaums. the shining. the truman show. the usual suspects. the virgin suicides. y tu mamá también. zoolander.
television: alias. angel. beavis & butt-head. boy meets world. buffy the vampire slayer. daria. dead like me. freaks & geeks. i love lucy. mad men. ren & stimpy. ringer. that 70's show. the adventures of pete & pete. the boondocks. the fresh prince of bel-air. the simple life. the twilight zone. the wonder years. true life.
books: brave new world. catcher in the rye. fahrenheit 451. fight club. go ask alice. invisible monsters. lullaby. the great gatsby. the perks of being a wallflower.
Women who are too sexual aren’t taken seriously, and women who aren’t sexual enough aren’t taken seriously. Women who are conventionally attractive get valued solely for their sexual appeal; women who aren’t conventionally attractive get dismissed for their lack of it. Women who are conventionally attractive are assumed to be dumb bimbos; women who aren’t conventionally attractive are assumed to be either bitter or desperate. Women who are conventionally attractive get trivialized; women who aren’t conventionally attractive get treated with pity and contempt. We can’t win.
Definition: Contrary to what most people think, an introvert is not simply a person who is shy. In fact, being shy has little to do with being an introvert! Shyness has an element of apprehension, nervousness and anxiety, and while an introvert may also be shy, introversion itself is not shyness. Basically, an introvert is a person who is energized by being alone and whose energy is drained by being around other people.
Introverts are more concerned with the inner world of the mind. They enjoy thinking, exploring their thoughts and feelings. They often avoid social situations because being around people drains their energy. This is true even if they have good social skills. After being with people for any length of time, such as at a party, they need time alone to “recharge.”
When introverts want to be alone, it is not, by itself, a sign of depression. It means that they either need to regain their energy from being around people or that they simply want the time to be with their own thoughts. Being with people, even people they like and are comfortable with, can prevent them from their desire to be quietly introspective.
Being introspective, though, does not mean that an introvert never has conversations. However, those conversations are generally about ideas and concepts, not about what they consider the trivial matters of social small talk.
Introverts make up about 60% of the gifted population but only about 25-40% of the general population.
I think people forget that they were once ignorant too. You didn’t come out the womb knowing everything you do. And while compassion and decency should be innate there are certain things we all have to learn to be better people.
So someone hasn’t gotten to where you are yet. Doesn’t mean they’re hopeless or bound to stay there forever.
Causing a quiet stir since they formed in September 2010, Brooklyn-based Friends are proof that indie, pop and sparkling vocals go together stunningly. The band consists of lead singer Samantha Urbani, Lesley Hann on bass, percussion and backing vocals, Nikki Shapiro who plays guitar, keyboards and some percussion, Matthew Molnar on keyboards, percussion and bass and last but not least Oliver Duncan is the band’s drummer. The band is tentatively signed to the indie outfit “Lucky Number” records and have already had two successful and critically acclaimed singles.
Last week saw the release of the band’s third single “Mind Control” which has been really well received and showcases the bands inspiring, poppy, upbeat sound and a full length album looks set to follow later in the year (with, as yet, no major label take up – note to record labels out there: take it up!)
Tell us What They Sound Like?
Kind of poppy, funky, electronic-y, trippy and really infectious. They seem to take all the best nits of pop and mix them with indie cool to come up with this awesomely danceable music. It’s sort of punky too, there’s a real DIY feel to this – not overproduced or overblown.
The band started out named as “Perpetual Crush”, again almost aiming themselves as a sweet disco type outfit – in reality there’s so much more to them than that. Lead singer Samantha Urbani was an artist for a while but always knew she wanted to do something relating to music, as she’d been writing songs for a lot of her life. She then took the fruits of her labor and played them to her friend Matthew Molnar (who is now the bands keyboard player) and the rest is history. They eventually settled on the name “Friends” for the band after hearing and loving the Beach Boy’s album of the same name (incidentally it also happened to be Brian Wilson of the said band’s favourite album that they did).
If you wanted a comparison – a band to say “they sound like this” maybe think about an outfit like The Waitresses or something similar. They’ve got that really strong feminine, punchy, harmonised vocal that goes so well with the bubblegummy keyboards and strong drum sound. Here’s their first single “Friend Crush”, a perfect example of what we’re talking about!
| Kid Congo and The Pink Monkey Birds at Waterloo Records |
| Oberhofer at Cedar Street Courtyard |
| Shiny Toy Guns at Auditorium Shores (courtesy of Baylor Lariat) |
| The Cult featuring Matthew McConaughey at Auditorium Shores |
| Of Montreal at Waterloo Records (courtesy of their Facebook) |
| Gary Clark Jr. at Waterloo Records |
| The Cult at Waterloo Records (courtesy of Facebook) |
| Counting Crows at Auditorium Shores (courtesy of 5342 Studios) |
I apologize for not updating for so long, and also for taking so long to post this.
For the first time since living in Austin, I attended SXSW. I know, crazy right? Now, a lot of people think you have to have a wristband or a badge to see any music down there, but that's not true. Every single one of the 20 bands I saw were for free (the key is to RSVP to every party and look up all the shows of course)! Next year I'd probably be willing to fork over some money to see some more known artists (especially since there were quite a few acts that I've mentioned in here that I didn't get to see), but it was great experience to get turned onto so much great music.
This will be in three parts since I went three days, so here is Thursday, day one.
| The Little Willies at Waterloo Records |
| Kimbra at La Zona Rosa (photo by Kirk Stauffer) |
| Keane at Cedar Street Courtyard (photo by themusic.com.au) |
| Cairo Knife Fight at New Zealand showcase |
I was late getting into St. Vincent's (otherwise known as singer/guitarist Annie Clark) music, specifically last year's terrific third album Strange Mercy, which should have made my Best of 2011 list. Following "Cruel," "Cheerleader" is the second single from the album. It will officially be released on Valentines Day, but the video premiered on Youtube today. The video was directed by Hiro Murai and features a giant version of Annie on display in the center of a gallery, looking every bit the porcelain doll.
After 1998's epic Brandy and Monica duet "The Boy is Mine", the duo reunite to bring us an anthem for the 21st century...ok only not really. The new track, "It All Belongs to Me" is nothing to get too excited about. Yes, vocally it's great to hear the two together again, but it's nothing memorable and the subject matter has been done too many times before and better. It's basically just another kiss-off song with awkward lyrics ("That Macbook belongs to me," "Log off your Facebook" Ok?) You can listen to the song below, and watch "The Boy is Mine" for old times sake. I also felt like including "What About Us?" by Brandy under the cut.
M.I.A.'s newly released song, the Danja-produced "Bad Girls" now has a music video. Directed by Romain Gavras ("Born Free"), the video makes the song even more badass, and features Arabs doing crazy car stunts (yes, they're actually real). M.I.A. shines in the video, as always bringing her understated dopeness to every scene. Watch the video below.