Erich Fromm said "to die is poignantly bitter, but the idea of having to die without having lived is unbearable". So here's how I live.
end of the day. feeling good. especially since tomorrow is friday. #ties #work #mensfashion #fashion #menssuits #menswear #suits #lookbook #ignation #igaddict #lookgood #style
it’s been a long day. #work #ties #mensfashion #fashion #menssuits #menswear #suits #lookbook #ignation #igaddict #lookgood #style
Moustache Tie Clip (Gunmetal)
I have two of these moustache clips, but I need to get this.
like @thetiebar guys say, “wear a good tie everyday. ” #mensfashion #fashion #menssuits #menswear #suits #lookbook #ignation #igaddict #lookgood #style
The Anti-Media
Make Forests Not War - Innovative design of “Seed Bombs” .
Aerial bombardment to reforest the earth
Forests are to be created by dropping millions of trees out of aircraft. With the help of this innovation we can plant 125,000 trees for each sortie and 900,000 trees in a day.
Lisa Bonet with daughter by Lenny Kravitz
People of color, women, and gays — who now have greater access to the centers of influence that ever before — are under pressure to be well-behaved when talking about their struggles. There is an expectation that we can talk about sins but no one must be identified as a sinner: newspapers love to describe words or deeds as “racially charged” even in those cases when it would be more honest to say “racist”; we agree that there is rampant misogyny, but misogynists are nowhere to be found; homophobia is a problem but no one is homophobic. One cumulative effect of this policed language is that when someone dares to point out something as obvious as white privilege, it is seen as unduly provocative. Marginalized voices in America have fewer and fewer avenues to speak plainly about what they suffer; the effect of this enforced civility is that those voices are falsified or blocked entirely from the discourse.
Teju Cole
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Well I disagree with the “homophobic” part of this because that word is thrown around all over the place. It used to be a clinical term that references a very specific psychological and emotional state. Now it’s a slur. It’s a liberal slur that’s used to vilify people who don’t “support” a particular lifestyle or “struggle.”
Clearly I am more passionate about the subject than most because I majored in Psychology and, even though I’m not in the field, I remain very studied because I have a true love for it hence my issue with it is more pronounced. Nevertheless I’m always disgusted by how everyone who doesn’t support gay marriage is homophobic. Never mind that fear and/or hatred is NOT needed to hold that particular position, if you’re not for gay marriage, you’re homophobic.
I could go on but I am certain it would fall on deaf ears. Nevertheless, I agree with the greater message and idea here.
The way I think about it, is, say a fireman is told by a supervisor, we need you to put out 15 fires this month. And if you don’t put out 15 fires you’re gonna get penalized for it. So if he doesn’t find 15 fires to put out, is that his fault? It’s not. But the fireman might even go out there and start setting fires, causing fires, just so he’s not penalized or looks bad… And that’s kind of what the police officers are doing.
Anonymous NYPD officer on the department’s policy of setting arrest and summons quotas. New audio obtained by The Nation reveals that New York City’s police union has cooperated with the NYPD in setting arrest quotas for the department’s officers, a practice that plays a direct role in increasing the number of stop-and-frisk encounters.
Read the full story here.
(via thenationmagazine)
i can’t shake the feeling that this feels like news from fifteen years ago. or maybe thirty. or maybe that it’s not news at all to some of us. but good, talk about it. talk about it. i see more and more talking about it since dorner lost his shit. so, good. maybe some people are waking up.
(via nezua)
this has been going on for decades in law enforcement. its even common in immigration enforcement where Border Patrol uses perks like vacations, gift cards, and cash bonuses to incentivize agents to round up innocent immigrants.
maybe someone else can answer this but why do law enforcement quotas exist? what difference would it make if your jail wasnt filled with innocent black people
(via dickchunks)
Private prisons.
(via mohandasgandhi)
and private prisons = free/almost free labor. We don’t need to go to china or el salvador to exploit someone in a sweatshop. Now we can do that here in the USA legally.
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Only the Finest
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Sweet. Can never have enough quality shirts. Of course my closet may disagree but I rarely listen to him haha.
Cuban pianist, composer and arranger Bebo Valdes talking to Ned Sublette in Bomb Magazine in 2002 about why he left Cuba for good:
In ‘56 when the revolution began, bombs started sounding in Havana. And on a famous night in Havana, [January 1, 1957], we were playing in the two salons of the Tropicana—one was under the stars and the other, the summer salon, had air conditioning, but there were nights they had to open both because there were so many people. That night there were more than three thousand people.
There was a divine young girl very near my back, close to the piano, and apparently there was a pocketbook near her—I don’t know, but they say it was that—and that girl was seated there at a table with her friends and family. She was dancing, then she came and sat down, and there was an explosion, and it tore off her left arm…very very near my back. The palm tree covered me, so nothing hit me. It could have hit me, and it could have hit Kiki Hernández, who was at my side. They took her out on a stretcher.
Valdes died Friday at age 94.
We’ve got some big Bebo fans on the staff here, so I asked them for their Bebo recommendations. Here’s what they passed along:
Roberta Shorrock, director: Route 66.
Danny Miller, executive producer: Two recommendations. 1) Bebo. We played the third track — “Danza No. 1” — off this album at the end of today’s show. 2) Bebo Valdes & Javier Colina: Live at the Village Vanguard.”
Terry Gross, host: The Chico and Rita soundtrack. It’s not exclusively Bebo’s music, but it features a lot of his work. Chico and Rita (the animated film) is loosely based on Bebo’s life and music. We did an interview with the film’s co-director Fernando Trueba a year ago which you can listen to here.
Image above is a still from the Chico and Rita film
RIP my dude.
if a guy came up to me in this outfit, i would fuck him without a second thought. take notes people.
In [female] matters you never do what your instincts tell you. Always, ALWAYS do the opposite.
Kramer goes to a fantasy camp. His whole life is a fantasy camp. People should plunk down two-thousand dollars to live like him for a week. Do nothing, fall ass-backwards into money, mooch food off your neighbors and have sex without dating. That’s a fantasy camp!!
JERRY: I’ve been thinking about asking this girl I’m seeing, Vanessa, to go away for a couple of days.
GEORGE: Oh no. No, no,no,no,no. I’d have to advise against that. What do you know this woman, a month? Let’s see, you’re going to be with her seventy-two hours. That’s a dating decathlon.
I love the mirror in that bathroom! I don’t know what in the hell it is; I look terrific in that mirror. I don’t know if it’s the tile or the lighting… I feel like Robert Wagner.
George: We were in the lobby during the intermission of the play. I was buying her one of those containers of orange drink, for five dollars. I reached into my pocket to pay for it, I looked down; there’s this piece of green floss hanging from my fingers. I’m looking at it, I look up, I see she’s looking at it. Our eyes lock. It was a horrible moment.
Jerry: So let me get this straight: she saw the floss, you panicked and you told her you liked her.
George: If I didn’t put that floss in my pocket, I’d be crawling around her bedroom right now looking for my glasses.
Jerry: [Hand]shake is bad, but what if it’s the “two-hander”? The hand on the bottom, the hand on the top, the warm look in the eyes?
George: The Hand-sandwich.
I can’t believe you’re bringin’ in an extra bed for woman, that wants to sleep with you.
Why don’t you bring in an extra guy too?
I have ALWAYS wanted a tie wall rack like this. Granted for a guy with over 200 pieces of neckwear, that would require a really big rack.
The dream closet… except for me you can get rid or all the books. I have a Kindle and a tablet. I download my books now. Also add way more footwear. Way more. I think I have a problem haha.
if I saw this in someone’s bathroom, at first I’d be a little weirded out but almost immediately I would think it’s cool. Also I would open it haha.
Track List:
- Soirée by Bill Evans
- Mrs. Robinson by Paul Desmond
- Gershwin Medley (Soon / For You, For Me, For Evermore / Love Walked In / Love Is Here to Stay) by The Modern Jazz Quartet
- Spectacular by Chico Hamilton
- Time and Time Again by Marian McPartland
- Concierto De Aranjuez (Part One) by Miles Davis
- Alone Together by Chet Baker
- Come, Gone by Sonny Rollins
- Kathy’s Waltz by The Dave Brubeck Quartet
- I Got Rhythm by Bill Evans
- Pres Returns by Lester Young
- I Know, Don’t Know How by Gerry Mulligan Quarter & Sextet
- Blues for Pablo by Miles Davis
- Sal’s Lament by David Friesen & Gary Versace
- Crow’s Nest by Cal Tjader, Stan Getz
- I Thought About You by Frank Rosolino
- Softly as in a Morning Sunrise by Stan Getz & Kenny Barron
- Vida Nova by Claudio Roditi
- Latona by John Patton
- Bag’s Groove by Modern Jazz Quartet
- 427 Mass Ave by Warren Wolf
- Maramoor Mambo by Cal Tjader
- Una Muy Bonita by Bobby Hutcherson
- Walter L. by Gary Burton
- The Way You Look Tonight by Lionel Hampton
- What’s Up Doc by Wil Blades
- Bobby’s Bad by Christian Howes
- It’s Your Thing by Lou Donaldson
- Nefertiti by Jazzen
- Busted by John Scofield
- Euclid Ave. by Phil Hawkins
- Agua de Beber by Toninho Horta
- The Keys to Freedom by Ted Sirota’s Rebel Souls
Chilling on the last day of a great weekend.
Playlist:
- Loran’s Dance by Idris Muhammad
- Butterfly by Herbie Hancock
- Painted Desert by Roy Ayers
- Moon Over Couronneau by Kyle Eastwood
- Jupiter by Hypnotic Brass Ensemble
- The Lost Ones by Stefon Harris & Blackout
- If Only by Electro Deluxe
- New Beyond by Isotope 217
- Trouble Man Theme by The Philadelphia Experiment
- Family by The RH Factor
I wouldn’t wear this since I don’t do sweaters but this is pretty cool. And you know how much I love bowties.
I decided to not buy any shirts until I get my abs back and I love a cool shirt.
My workout program ends in mid September but I’m hoping before then, I’ll have at least a four pack and then will be able to go top shopping because, again, me in a cool shirt is always awesome.
You know I bookmarked a bunch of people on Etsy who make these tie bars. I don’t need any of them but man alive, I want all of them.
I’ve always stayed away from sports jackets like these but this sir has inspired a turnaround.
You know, my birthday past and none of you got my a present.
That’s all I’m going to say.
I’m supposed to saving money but I want all this.
Screw it! I’ll be the most stylish homeless man in American. That’s not a bad goal to have haha.
Ok, you know what? I give you guys pics, advice, witty comments and etc. Time for you to give back. Buy me a shirt! hahaha.
Some pattern mix matching for those who need some help getting started.
HINT: Start from the top and make your way down as your confidence grows.
I am not a shawl guy but if anything is going to bring over to that side, looks like this will. I’m still going to put up a fight though haha.
The dream closet… except for me you can get rid or all the books. I have a Kindle and a tablet. I download my books now. Also add way more footwear. Way more. I think I have a problem haha.
See that tie? I am on a mission to own that tie in every color combo possible. It’s always good to have these ties in reserve. It’s like a dependable reliever.
Btw, GO YANKEES!!!
I would in spades.
Man I can’t wait for Fall and Winter to return. And I hope they come back cold as fuck!
Believe that I’m going to make one of my photog friends take a photo like this of me once my bod transformation is done. I mean if not then all these crunches are for naught haha.
I always feel stupid when i don’t know the name of a color. Like aren’t you supposed to know the name of ever color on the planet once you’re done with kindergarten? Jeez!
Ok, what color is that blazer? It’s not grey but it’s not olive green either. It’s somewhere in between.
Solid pattern matching. I can’t wait to buy a closet full of new shirts so I can do this again.
Honestly, there’s something about wearing a suited get up where the pants and the blazer aren’t the same cloth and/or pattern that says you really know what you’re doing with clothes. You know what I’m saying?
This is just boss.
I’m always worried that when I wear any formation of red, white and blue that I’ll look like a walking flag. I can ignore that for some get ups but this one would make me really worried haha.
hey, i know it’s stupid. shut up! i’m rubber…
Not going to lie, when I’m feeling real good about my pocket square, I stand, sit and walk like this too haha.
Give me this with that paisley joint as the pocket square. Get that bland one outta here!