Sometimes I feel like when women date other women it is a sign of weakness. I have seen a pattern with this, they were usually hurt by a guy in a previous relationship or past time, or they genuinely hate men because of the terrible reputation they seem to uphold. I’ve also noticed that a lot of lesbians are fatherless, now these examples have almost nothing to do with why I feel most lesbians are weak these are just things I’ve noticed. Now this doesn’t apply to all because I don’t know them all I just feel generally as a person if you like women you are weak. 

Now let me explain 

I feel like not dating men shows how much you can’t handle it meaning you really don’t want to go through with the games (if any), the get to knowing, or over all connecting with the opposite sex (which can be very difficult as much as females are hard to read men can be complex in some ways too) . I feel like dating the same sex would be the easy way out since your a female your’re almost a step ahead in the relationship. Even though you’ll still have to go through the typical things people go through in relationships but being that you are both the same sex it is much more of a convenience.   

I also got this theory from butches (women that dress like men) I never understand their logic or their mates logic. I get that you like women and don’t necessarily hate men so why date someone that replicates a man except they are not one. Do you want the best of both worlds, what are you attracted to sexually because your girlfriend is a girl but she looks,talks, and acts like a man. Why not go get the real thing? To me this is telling because you are showing me that you actually do like what men look like, you like a mans style, and you like the way they talk (because your girlfriend does just this) but you don’t like what they are born with. That is so weak to me. 

You ever heard of animal lovers not loving people well that concept sort of reminds me of women who date other women. Besides the other logistics of it (not all lesbians are the same) they can’t really handle the things that come with a man. They can act like a man or they can date a woman that acts like a man but to go after the real thing is not really on their agenda.

There is suppose to be so much more to this post but this is all that I have, it may very well sound like a ramble of nothing but I do feel strongly about this. 

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tobia:

Reuben Negron
Embrace V
11 x 17 in. 
Graphite on paper
2007

From Dirty Dirty Love, a series of visual confessions pertaining to identity, sexuality and the personal narrative, 

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quelowat:

PLAYING DRESS UP: A child in costume had lipstick applied before a ritual ceremony to welcome Nyepi, Bali’s Day of Silence and the Hindu New Year, in Jakarta, Indonesia, Monday. The Hindu New Year falls on Tuesday this year. (Beawiharta/Reuters)

gamepuss:

kwills88:

in the honor of niggadom tonight

I can not express how funny this is.

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blackfashion:

epiceli:supermartianrobotgirl:

No Pigeons (No Scrubs remix) — TLC ft. Sporty Theves

me and my sis go crazy over this song

pineappleupsidedown:

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christieloveon365:

As a kid I was very notorious for stealing money 

 at the tender age of 5 I tried to steal $20 out of my father’s draw I don’t remember if I wanted to buy something specific or if I had a clue what the value was. As a kid I was use to having and seeing a $1.00 bill so to see and be able to contain and have a $20, to me I was Bill Gates. It’s funny because I didn’t steal candy, food, or children’s necessities I knew it was pointless because money was the highest efficiency. I had a SERIOUS stash in my closet I continuously stole money to stay on top of my game I knew if I ran out there was no more stealing (of course that was my justification to be a thief)

this is a little unknown fact about me, a piece from my post things I couldn’t succeed at as a kid

ravieb:

adventures of kirsy lovett and ravie B

<3 bad to the bone, good for the eyes

Why would you want a hersheys kiss inside you, I am so confused.

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bobbitodamus:

the next morning…

chit4branes:

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bowfolk:

ellygreenwood:

urban knitting: the world’s most inoffensive graffiti

My older formspring didn’t work well for me and was used for all the wrong reasons. Lately I’ve been getting a number amount of fan mail that’s been really lifting my spirits it seems like they have so much more to say. But after seeing how ridiculous formspring has become I thought why would I make one, especially since I don’t take well to disrespect then I thought of all the right reasons it should be for. Not everyone is following my blog so I figured formspring would be a place for real questions that people have for me.

tobia:

CHITOSE ABE

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tobia:

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themovementsmoving:

had to get a new one mine had a crack in it. booty talk. boomey b.

You guys should really follow her

cloudsformedwords:

I wish people weren’t so sensitive I would love to write to someone before I un-followed them to tell them why I’m doing so. I would do this to prevent them from loosing more followers for this same reason.

For example posting too many pictures of yourself at once, there is no reason I should see a self portrait of you every page I go back. If it wasn’t ok on myspace to post 5 of the same pictures of yourself with a small difference in pose then it’s definitely not ok anywhere else.

nakimuli:

rings by peace images, $36 each

my next purchase. i think. lol but i will be buying this one day, in pink. maybe after i get those shoes i have my eye on. oooooo!!!

(i like the black one too but i can’t own another black item!)

i may have to change my fav color to hot pink/fuchsia.  purple has been my fav color since age 5, but i think it’s cuz my mom brainwashed my into believing it. til this day, she always seems to buy purple thingy-things for me. but i use hot pink a lot when i design + i always seem to gravitate towards it whenever i see it. hhhmmm…

If I wasn’t brought up right I would learn so much more from television then my classroom

blackblonde:

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White people will make a  movie about their left and right toe but some how reruns of Brown Sugar, Diary of a mad black women, and The Temptations (many more) are recycled  through out tv as if those are the only great black movies made. How many times is Crookyln going to be played (one of my favorite movies) I’m going to see that movie enough to be forced to believe that black people only live in Brooklyn. It’s like I see hundreds of movies every year that are about the same shit, like how many times is this white girl going to fall in love and how many times is this white man going to save the world. When I see a really good black movie I have never seen before I am so upset how come this movie can’t be added to the cycle (along with many other unknown black movies).

That’s why I hate when people bag on Tyler Perry (I am overjoyed for Why did I get Married Too btw) I understand you have your small issues with him maybe you hate that he uses the same black actors and actresses (white people do it) and maybe you hate that most of his movies base around a distraught black women (white people do it). Overall this man is only out to make it to so little black girls and boys see their faces on tv while growing up and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. We actually need more more directors like Tyler Perry who use those great and very talented black entertainers that you rarely see casted.

I just want to know why slavery movies are continued to be shown on tv over and over but slavery is not taught in depth in schools?

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craig-christ:

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This is either the greatest album cover known to man or the hardest game of “find the Puerto Rican transsexual” ever.

I will never understand Prince

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onesmartblackboy:

Did I just spend 5 minutes watching her put makeup on?

theways:

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theperks:

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I call this my wall

brecheese:

juliasegal:

Strike a pose…

brecheese:

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Chipotle.

WAIT. i just noticed that this burrito has no rice. What is a Chipotle burrito with no rice?

That is not a burrito. no. its flawed.

brecheese:

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so amazing.

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blackblonde:

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uniquee:

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fuckyouthought:

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They are so damn cute together <3

they really do. both beautiful people.

christieloveon365:

There is one store and brand that I will buy any and everything from I still have items from them that have lasted for years (years being 5) I can’t deny anything they make I’m never angry when I look at a price tag from their store it seems to be worth every penny. Not only are they reasonable but their items are made for individuals meaning. If you have no sort of style any piece of item from this store will make you. But if you do know what you’re doing and you got it going on most of their items will only enhance and improve your style.

I’m  talking about Zara

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it’s me again

christieloveon365:

I can talk until my mouth gets sore which is a lot of talking. I’ve discussed Philly and I’ve discussed New York but nothing will ever change. I will either have to get over this crisis Philly is having or move back, unfortunately things are never that simple. I can’t go to the store without being reminded why this place sucks major balls. I’m still working on my communication skills and so far Philly hasn’t changed yet. I will enjoy making fun of the rude, inconsiderate and uptight folk until my death bed but in the mean time something has got to give. There is no way I can deal with people not laughing at my jokes I think I’m really funny the least they can do is laugh at my jokes. I don’t think that’s too much to ask

I liked today a lot because I like sharing my story I can talk to anyone.

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When Girls Don’t Put Out

This was written by a guy, it’s pretty damn smart.

Girls, allow yourself to have a sense of humor.

I never quite figured out why the sexual urge of men and women differ so much. And I never have figured out the whole Venus and Mars thing. I have never figured out why men think with their head and women with their heart.

For example:

One evening last week, my girlfriend and I were getting into bed. Well, the passion starts to heat up, and she eventually says, “I don’t feel like it, I just want you to hold me.”

I said, “What? What was that?”

So she says the words that every boyfriend on the planet dreads to hear.

“You’re just not in touch with my emotional needs as a woman enough for me to satisfty your physical needs as a man.”

She responded to my puzzled look by saying, “Can’t you just love me for who I am and not what I do for you in the bedroom?”

Realizing that nothing was going to happen that night, I went to sleep.

The very next day I opted to take the day off of work to spend time with her. We went out to a nice lunch and then went shopping at a big unnamed department store. I walked around with her while she tried on several different very expensive outfits. She couldn’t decide which one to take, so I told her we’d just buy them all. She wanted new shoes to compliment her new clothes, so I said, “Let’s get a pair for each outfit.”

We went on to the jewelry department where she picked out a pair of diamond earrings. Let me tell you, she was so excited. She must have thought I was one wave short of a shipwreck. I started to think she was testing me because she asked for a tennis bracelet when she doesn’t even know how to play tennis.

I think I threw her for a loop when I said, “That’s fine, honey.” She was almost nearing sexual satisfaction from all of the excitement. Smiling with excited anticipation, she finally said, “I think this is all, dear, let’s go to the cashier.”

I could hardly contain myself when I blurted out, “No honey, I don’t feel like it.”

Her face just went completely blank as her jaw dropped with a baffled, “What?”

I then said, “Honey, I just want you to hold this stuff for a while. You’re just not in touch with my financial needs as a man enough for me to satisfy your shopping needs as a woman.”

And just when she has this look like she was going to kill me, I added, “Why can’t you just love me for who I am and not for the things I buy you?”

Apparently I’m not having sex tonight either but at least that bitch knows I’m smarter than her.

had to reblog.

smh. This makes me smile.